WayOutWise

Ho ho ho. It’s almost time to eat like there’s no tomorrow and open presents like a weedeater going through grass. The buildup is coming, the stress of getting it all done is growing and then it will be over. Just like a snap of your fingers, the tree and lights come down, the weight gain becomes the focus and we grumble into the new year talking about how fast the last one went.

OK, I’ll admit I don’t share the same feelings about Christmas spirit as others do. I don’t like the crowds and don’t enjoy the stress of making sure we have presents for everyone, cards to send, parties to attend and on and on.

I think what wears on me the most is how commercialized the season has become. I don’t think stores should be open on Thanksgiving Day. I don’t think Christmas decorations should be up before Thanksgiving. I don’t think the lights should come down until New Years Day. I think all the world should think like me. 🙂

What I do think about is that a number of people consider Christ this time of year. Easter and Christmas, right? He’s not the reason for the season anymore and I know we don’t know His birthday. To me, that’s no big deal because He is noticed. He is recognized. He is considered. I hope we can take the moment and help people see it all year, no, for the rest of their life.

Christmas does represent a gift to me. It’s a gift I celebrate all year long and it’s a better gift than anything I will open this year. It’s the gift of Jesus. The example. The sacrifice. I thank God for such a precious gift.

It’s been a good weekend. Friday night at Joe T. Garcia’s with my wife always makes for a GREAT evening. Taking my son to a high school championship game with sideline passes and walking down the tunnel at Texas Stadium was a blast. Meeting the girls in Ft. Worth for dinner at Angelo’s was awesome. Donny had a great class at church, Rick delivered another awesome message from the Sermon on the Mount and an awesome meeting with the Elders to discuss our mission work in Aracaju wrapped up my Sunday. It’s been a good weekend. A blessed weekend.

I’m battling the new computer syndrome. Excited about a newer, faster, better machine. Going crazy trying to get all my stuff where it was and learning some updated software. It’s more frustrating than fun today but eventually I’ll have a greater appreciation for the increased performance and enhancements.

It’s the same problem we deal with daily. We want things to work the way we want them to work NOW! I don’t want to wait, I want it NOW! I want a microwave response with a gourmet taste. It just doesn’t happen though.

Heaven is a ways off. I don’t know whether it’s 30 minutes or 30 years away but nevertheless, it’s in the future. God’s answer to my prayers are in the future. I don’t know whether it will be 5 seconds, 5 months, 5 years before I get an answer but it’s coming. Knowing all this, I still want it NOW!

God doesn’t operate on microwave time. It’s up to me whether I want to grab hold of the quickest answer I can find or wait for the best answer I could receive.

Last night was a great night. I got to witness a baptism, a new birth. It was a moving moment because it was a friend and someone I didn’t think would make such a decision just a few years ago. People have been planting the seed within her for years and last night, God increased His kingdom. What a wonderful, wonderful moment.

Today, I have been labeled as a bigot and someone who spreads hate instead of love. I was also labeled a Baptist which made me laugh. I visit another blog, a more liberal blog written by an attorney in Decatur. He throws out volatile issues, usually of the liberal nature, and watches the vultures attack. Yesterday, he brought up Brokeback Mountain, the movie about two gay cowboys. I responded saying I wouldn’t see the movie because I don’t agree with the lifestyle and wouldn’t condone it by paying to see the movie. I was hammered by some who admitted to being gay and some who feel they have a more enlightened view than me. I’m confident I said nothing derogatory about people but about the action yet they called me names while saying I should be more open-minded like them. They called me names and said I shouldn’t be so judgemental, they called me names even while saying that judging others is sinful. I’ve come to have a great disdain for the word “tolerance” because it so often seems the most intolerant people are those that shout for tolerance the loudest.

I pray God sheds His love and His mercy on each one of us today and that He imparts more understanding and wisdom of His will to all of us. Have a great day.

Do you ever have a day that doesn’t start out quite right? Today was one of those days for my daughter and me. We got cross-ways and it wasn’t pretty. My son disappeared (ducking for cover!) and my wife stepped in to play peacemaker. I absolutely hate the way things went this morning. I want a do-over. I want my little girl to change the way she acted and I certainly want the opportunity to change my response. I’ve apologized to my daughter, son and wife and I still feel miserable about it. I want a do-over but I won’t get one. I’m stuck with the memory of this morning.
The good news: I believe they will forgive me and move on. I can’t change today but I believe I’ll have the opportunity to start fresh tomorrow and today will only be a lesson of how to change behavior and actions.
Our preacher, on Sunday, spoke of a lady who had forgiven her husband and “refused to dwell” on his actions. How thankful are we when those around us take the same attitude?
Even greater, I have a Lord and Savior who not only refuses to dwell on my mistakes when I ask His forgiveness but He washes me clean with His blood. HALLELUJAH! He will make me clean again, He will purify me and let me once again walk on the path to Heaven.
I’m thankful when my family will forgive me. The people we live with are often the ones we cause the most hurt. It is only greater that I also have a God who forgives me, who sheds His grace on me and lifts me up. I have so much to be thankful for.

I read an interesting article today about a small, tight-knit community that has spent time and resources in redeveloping their neighborhood. They have grown to know each other and help each other in many different ways. From neighborhood get-togethers to making food after an illness or death. They have become a community of friends.
Do you know your neighbors? Growing up, I knew everyone on our street. Today, I know just a few of the families. I think it’s a common thing today to be too busy or too comfortable to be able to know your neighbors and develop community in a small setting.
As I read this story, I thought about the community I am a part of, where I do know many of my neighbors and where we all come together to help each other. My church family is a community that I draw strength from and lean on, where I enjoy the camaradarie of others and also share a common purpose.
I’m thankful for the body of people I meet with, worship with, laugh with and cry with in Decatur. I thank God for these people and pray that as we grow together, we will strengthen each other, support each other and love each other while glorifying Him in all of our actions.

There’s still a chill in the air. At this moment, the weather station at Decatur HS is reporting a temperature of 10.5 degrees and a wind chill of -6.8 degrees. Yes, that’s a NEGATIVE wind chill. I love cold weather and can’t wait for it to get here each year but the wind can make it miserable quickly. I’m watching Channel 8 and seeing shots of all the semis and passenger vehicles in some state of distress and glad I live close by to where I have to be.

These bad driving days always remind me of working for a CPA firm in Ft. Worth. When it was like this, very few of the staff would show up. Being one of the newer people and working from the “bullpen”, I would often be the only one or one of two to show up. I would leave the house an hour late and would go home a couple of hours early but I was there when the managers or partners who came in needed something and called. It got me some deposits in the emotional bank accounts of those people.

Be careful today if you are out. If you aren’t, enjoy the down time and use it to recharge. Have a warm day!

I’m headed to Ft. Worth today for a doctor’s appointment, a meeting and some errands. The girls in the office (extreme alarmists) are already talking about the sleet and bad roads just south of here. They are planning their escape to get home ahead of this weather event.

EDIT FROM ORIGINAL POST: After first writing this, I’m learning that the roads are quite a bit worse than the reports I heard earlier today.

I know many people who look at this type weather with icy roads and think nothing of it driving along as if there is not a problem in the world. Others, like those in my office, act as if the world will stop spinning on it’s axis. Then, there are the folks in the middle, giving due respect to the weather and the consequences it can produce but not about to go into “shut-down mode” as if they are paralyzed from fear of what could be.

Do you know people like this? Do you see similar situations in your work? your life? your church? Do you know which one you are? It’s a rhetorical question.

Wahoo. It’s Tuesday! I feel like I’m in a blog rut.

I was starting to write about my so-called friends who abuse me on blogs but decided that wasn’t the right thing to do. We all have our faults and they have more than me so why discuss it here, right?

Icy roads tomorrow? Wasn’t it 75 last weekend? This weather is just playing havoc with my wardrobe.

For those of you who think it takes too much time to do a blog, this one is dedicated to you. If you think this takes much time, you have lost your mind.

Kelly’s new puppy is truly eating us out of house and home. First, she gobbled up the window screens and now the faucet covers. I’m contemplating buying new covers and lacing them with tobasco to see how she feels about that. Tobasco used to remind me of pledging (and still does at times) but more often it reminds me of a strange woman I met at Cooks Hospital when Kory was sick once.

OK, so this did take me about 6 hours to complete. It just doesn’t make sense does it?

Wahoo, it’s Friday! There’s a guy coming to the office today that I like on a personal level but who has made some bad choices in his business life with how he treats people. He continually overpromises and seldom delivers yet he never sees it as his mistake and does a good job of laying blame at someone else’s feet. In the last few months, he has been fired by 3 or 4 different companies that he has either been an employee of or represented in business dealings. He tells everyone all he can do, he asks for his money up-front and then never fufills his promise and it’s never his fault. I bet you know someone like that. It’s frustrating because I do like him, he’s a nice guy and he really has a good heart – until he steps into the work arena and then it’s like someone else takes over.
Many people have shut him out but he still calls me because I guess I’m too nice to say no. I’ll continue to treat him as if it’s the nice guy here and hope one day he will change his ways. We’ve talked about it in the past and he still doesn’t see it, doesn’t believe he’s at fault.
I suppose I have my weaknesses too. Yeah, it’s hard to believe isn’t it? HA HA. OK, I don’t need anyone listing them out for me. Back to what I was saying, I have my weaknesses and I sure hope people see in me the good and not the bad. I hope people will treat me kindly even when I may not be the person they want to be around at the moment. I know God treats me that way.
I want to have a heart like God. Oh yes, I’m a long, long, long way from being like God but I still want to try. God, grant me a heart that is open like yours, a heart that is merciful like yours, a heart that is ever loving like yours.